Resigning is spread in the rumor not well family at home " Boil to the " Gloomy to get worry

Resigning is spread in the rumor not well family at home " Boil to the " Gloomy to get worry
Green hill one man difficult to reemploy resign, speculate in shares attentively then and quilt cover, act as the family wholeheartedly " Boil to the " Discussed by people, since this drops " worry " .Zhu Chao (assumed name) of the green hill The gentleman has worked as a temporary labourer in the joint venture, because of personnel system and working environment discontented with the company, resigned 3 years ago. Over these years, he has applied for other companies, but not succeeded. In October of 2006, Zhu Chao determined to speculate in shares attentively, seldom went out too on weekend, the connection with friends was drifted apart day by day.Because the child is young, the wife is a unit financial executive, the busy traffic of every day, Zhu Chao proposes looking after children at home voluntarily. From then on, he enclose speculate in shares, house work, give birth to children " three a gleam of " . Before two months, he was depressed, kept silent suddenly, it was irritated that the child pestered him to tell a story and dislike too, wife accompany him relieve boredom too displeased, wife accompany him get the intersection of theatre and the intersection of hospital and the intersection of spirit and psychological the intersection of in the center and consultation recently.Under the questioning circuitously of psychologist, Zhu Chao talks about here and sends the daughter to go to the kindergarten every day, teacher blurt out question sentence: "You meet and send off child every day, family the intersection of man and mainly inner, woman mainly outside? " Zhu Chao felt suddenly that had not contributed the family by oneself over these three years: Not finding the work, the stock sustains economic losses again, want to feel self-humiliation.Director Hu YaRong of this centre analyzes, the reason to cause the above-mentioned psychological phenomena is that the man is " mainly used to acting outside The role, forced to return to the family, psychological pressure is promoted suddenly, even will feel the discrimination from society and relatives and friends, and exchange with people little more gradually, the psychology is in isolating state. Advise couple to exchange more, understand heart need, respect, tolerant each other, worry will not be cured and healed. (Qi Yan Li LiXia)
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