Watch out for " new network addiction " : More than 6 grades is a little rich and serious and habit-forming to accuse of getting
The caricature is mediocr
It wake up by thing first morning even if at rich a little,even if not sit in nightstool breaking by paging; Get up, narrow and have in mind at dead of night" Steal dishes " ,It is tired that the dizzy brain rises a face in the daytime Reviewing, discussing the government work report has something to do with " Strengthen use and management of Internet " At the time of the topic, some representatives and committee members, to " winning accusing of a little " instantly , " it is overbearing to steal dishes " , " addiction of sending the card " Discuss warmly, remind everybody to watch out for " new network addiction "
" a little win and accuse of " The adult plays protagonis
Different from wallowing in and overcoming all the difficulties in the way, typing traditional network addiction that the network game which kill the strange beast brings, what the representatives and committee members discussed warmly is popular at present this time " It is accused of that a little rich" , " it is overbearing to steal dishes " , " addiction of sending the card " Wait for " new network addiction " . And and traditional network addiction that everybody know very well take teenagers' colony as the core different, knit bibs, plant the vegetables to steal the vegetables, send the card money order receipt to be signed and returned to the sender New the intersection of network and playing method these let increasingly many adult " Captured one after another "
The intersection of net friend and " cloud light conditions and customs have " Tell reporters, there are more than 1000 pieces of bean vermicelli in oneself is a little rich, have much bean vermicelli to respond to send the card every day, every one replies and costs several hours soon, but in reality, she is only an ordinary small civilian, speak and act cautiously in the unit, never many, in life except parents and two only boudoirs are dense, there is no friend to exchange again. "When being a little rich, may I exchange with Chen, Zhao Wei these star Yao, does the star know on reality which root spring onions I am? " Net friend " tw139 " Admit frankly oneself " every morning, go to work, nearly one fall all over a little rich to watch piece good friend. If seeing, always think what oneself misses.
" a little win and accuse of " Divide eight grade
Because to a little rich reliance, one new the intersection of vocabulary and " a little rich to accuse of " Arise at the historic moment. Until to a little rich degree of dependence, " a little rich to accuse of " some website Divided into eight grades: First grade is only surrounded and watched and remained silent; Second meets excitement to reply, transmit; Tertiary break is taken up completely; The intersection of moderate breeze and too in have a little rich working time; Five grades do not have a rest on two-day weekend; Six grades are stayed up to be looked for hotly; Seven grades are breaking the page too at midnight; Life of eight grades is reversed, hospital treatment
Except busy " Knit bibs " ,A lot of people will be busy with planting the vegetables and stealing vegetables, shopping to break in the happy network on the net " Wash the treasure " , send card money order receipt to be signed and returned to the sender actively at the social website, it holds to be quite a while in front of computer often, but on hand work too late to make, have to stay up to work overtime, the residence " weaves and replies weaving " at home too on two-day weekend
Country second ShuQing Liu, teacher of psychological consultation, remind, no matter write with a little rich or steal dishes, judge whether oneself has already been suffered from " New network addiction " ,The more important thing is to check the proportion in life of this kind of behavior, and this kind of behavior has brought the adverse effect to job, life, family relationship
Liu ShuQing is reminded, if excessively wallow in WeiBo, happy and shopping at network, will cause people and be unable to totally break away from the fictitious relation of the network, appear self-confidence swell easily, self-assessment higher to run high emotional responess. At this time, let him break away from a little rich suddenly, will appear, " give up the response " anxious, fidgety ,The serious one will even initiate the anxious disease
The expert points out, the modern society, nearly everybody has produced information anxious disease and information reliance disease more or less, and excessively indulge in the network, will make people isolate from realistic society, cause the interpersonal relationships to be tense. Take a little rich grading that accuses of as examples, a above- sixth -class one a little rich to accuse of, basically can judge for being habit-forming seriously. Those often open the page and brush rejecting, newer person repeatedly having no reason at all, if is too frequent, even probably suffer from obsession
It is a habit-forming reason that the psychology is satisfie
However, Liu ShuQing shows, don't propose " new network addiction " at the same time Think this is a very terrible thing, in fact, people like new network exchanging, game platforms such as a little rich, social network, forum,etc., because people need release pressure, except a lot of people do not have other release pressure channels in the network, or there are channels but not easy to realize. For example a lot of people say that can decompress to travel, but the unit false financial burden that please come down, travel could be born, so as to travel very difficult to realize, through write a little rich planting dishing, stealing dishing or taking place the card, can release the pressure rapidly, and the cost is very low
In addition, Liu ShuQing points out, through knitting bibs, stealing dishes and can meet a lot of people's satisfaction to the interpersonal relationships too. Modern unavoidably will wear some by self-protection at society " The mask " ,Can unload the mask and show true oneself in the network. And look like " fresh breeze and his fresh breeze of A " So, thinking to adopt little Bora and the star has many distances, in fact, this remedies the sense of achievement different to get in reality partly too
Meanwhile, can let people obtain a large number of concern of crowd, meet Vanity that people are paid close attention to easily while being rich a little. In the a little rich world, everybody has one's own bean vermicelli, can realize the feeling pursued by bean vermicelli easily
Self-control is prevented into an addictio
Liu ShuQing says, the adult's reason and self- control ability, can prevent the new network from becoming the addiction effectively
ShuQing Liu point out, want, get rid of a little rich addiction, steal dish to be overbearing doing shopping overbearing capping, the best method is adjusting oneself rightly. Cool down, think oneself take place on earth at first and what advantages does it watch, use by oneself the a little rich purpose and need clearly, and it is as a same reason to steal dish and shopping
Secondly should limit one's own time, try not to take the time of too much breaks and recreation amusement. Can set up an alarm clock, it only spends an hour now in the network if took 4 hours originally, the alarm clock rings to stop at once. If has already habit-forming, might as well try every possible means to try hard to keep away from mobile phone and computer
In addition, contact relative, friend more and want the party of increasing and friend consciously, promote the emotion through the face-to-face exchange. On every weekend, festivals or holidays, commemoration day, except send messages, phone to greet the friend, all right
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